Monday, February 24, 2020


1800
 
 
 
"1800" is the affectionate name we gave to the house in which my parents lived for forty good years. My father bought the house in 1954 when my twin sister and I were two years old. By that time my parents had seven people that needed beds. The list included my parents, an older brother and sister, me and my twin sister and my father's mother. I have no memory of our first house at all but when I was older I would drive by it with my parents and they would tell me about how great the neighborhood was because they had made life long friends.
 
I really believe it used to snow more when I was growing up. My memory may be mistaken but I could swear it would snow every single year. In 1800 we had radiators for warmth and they were the best thing to put your sodden gloves or socks on to dry after sledding on a sheet pan for hours in the cold snow. School invariably was on hold while no one drove on the streets and no busses passed in front of our house. All was made pure, white and quiet until children's voices could be heard throwing snowballs or building a snowman. One could not resist going out and joining in the neighborhood fun.
 
Afterwards hot chocolate waited for our return to 1800 after being chilled to the bone. As soon as our noses thawed and our gloves dried out it was back out the door while the sun shone. It's amazing how a day after a snowstorm the sky shines blue as a robin's egg and the trees turn into crystal sculptures shining like they are made of venetian glass. It seemed as though each snow that fell was deep enough that when I would have to stomp slowly through it to get anywhere it reached up my calves.
 
Now if we get any snow here it usually is not very deep. If it is then we are delighted even though the newscast reports doom and gloom if you are not prepared. One of my daughters lives in Minnesota and I am sure they would all laugh up there at us down here in the South as we prepare diligently to be snowed in for one day. All the milk and bread disappears from the grocery store shelves as well as peanut butter and jelly. The neighborhood Lowe's puts salt and scrapers to the front of the store along with flashlights of varying sizes. Heaven knows you may lose power so you better get two of  those and all your candles ready.
 
We did have a huge snow in 2000. Was it 21 inches? I was away in the warm climate of the Bahamas when it occurred and therefore was stranded until our plane could finally take off in the tropics towards a land blanketed in the white stuff. Catching a ride home in a reliable snow worthy car from a stranger that my traveling companions and I met at the airport was our sleighride home. It was magnificent. I don't believe I've ever experienced snow that deep.
 
 
(c)nancy  2.24.2020
2011




Another year gone. Another year to look forward to with hope and belief in better moments and a fuller bank account. Right?

Let's face it. It's okay to want that for yourself. It's no joke that this past year has been challenging for a lot of us. If it hasn't been that way for you then you are among the few and I hope you are thankful. I am thankful for each time when I go to the grocery store that I am able to go to the grocery store. And my close friends know that I do not like going to the grocery store! But I have tried to make the items go a long way. The portions on my plate are smaller and it's okay to lose a few pounds in the process. I pray every day for the roof over my head to stay the roof over my head. I like this roof.

Where are you in all of this? Wherever you are, let's believe together for better. Better relationships, better income, better attitudes, better all over. There's nothing wrong with that . . .  don't give up. Hang in there. Keep breathing.


(c) nancy 1.28.2010















Bah Humbug or It's a Wonderful Life ... it's your choice



Really?

Yes.


Let's talk George Bailey. Christmas looked pretty gloomy and overcast. In fact, it was snowing. Snowing so hard that it clouded George's vision and he wrecked his car. What else could go wrong? Could his life ever get better? Maybe his family would be better off if he never existed. The freezing water under the bridge looked like a quick way to end the suffering.


But ... freeze the frame.


Enter ... Clarence who jumped off the bridge instead and George had to jump in and save him. Clarence smiled all the way to shore. He knew what he was doing.

George, on the other hand, did not.

Life happens and sometimes you'll need someone to show you the way. When someone comes into yours and rescues you from fates unknown take the time to take stock and decide you're not drowning after all. You may be treading water but you are breathing. So get yourself to shore or let someone help you get there. Dry yourself off. Look at your life and what it would have been like without you in it. You have no idea how you have positively affected someone else's life in the past.

Without you, they would have drowned.


(photo courtesy of the web)
(c) nancy 1.23.10